Charles November 18, 2009 at 11:30 pm
This is an important post!
I disagree that 7 and 9 are bad questions to ask because I feel they can be important things to talk about as things progress. The unplanned pregnancy scenario is not unlike the STD test request in that it shows a man’s ability to think beyond moments of pleasure and consider the possible consequences. And moving in together… well, you’ve established your stance on that so lets just agree to disagree.
The one question I do really think should be up here is “How many women have you slept with?” Because no one ever really wants to know the answer to that one.
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Kaneisha November 19, 2009 at 2:23 am
@Charles: You’re completely right about not asking men about their number. It didn’t even occur to me to put that one, because that is one question I KNOW I don’t want the answer to!