Hi Lorene,
Thanks for your comment! It’s not about the length of time you know a man, it’s really about knowing his plan before having sex. Just b/c you both may want marriage, doesn’t mean you’ll marry each other … but at least you know you’re both headed in the same direction. To ask him about his ideal relationship doesn’t mean he’s gonna answer it thinking of YOU. This way you’re taking better care of the man’s feelings than your own. Just my opinion!
Love, Cherry
I asked my guy to see me once a week and he couldn't commit to that. We had the monogamy talk. Sadly he got spooked and didn't want to commit to me or a relationship. Note to self slow down next time, oopsy daisy!