That is helpful Cherry. Thank you. I have one more related question. If a work-related guy is signalling that he wants a social relationship with you but it setting it up as a friendly rather than dating relationship. Does that mean that he is not interested at all romantically? Can it be that he is simply playing it safe or is it much more likely that he isn’t that into me!? And I like him romantically, my sense is that I have to be very careful about accepting ‘non-date’ dates. Would you agree?
Kate
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Cherry Norris September 12, 2011 at 10:57 pm
Hi Kate,
Sounds like your guy could be interested. He could be playing it safe and building a friendship in order to learn who you are.
Say “YES!” to his ‘non-dates.’ Be friendly and enjoy!